Dear Charleigh

I look forward to giving my first bit of tumblr advice (: that’s all.

WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER WHEN YOU ARE IN A BAD MOOD?

If it’s a superficial issue (i.e. not the end of the world), usually ice-cream &/or candy will do the trick (:

Makeup’s fun & girly. I want it, but I don’t want to look like a tranny with too much or a ghost when i take it off. Decisions&Consequences.

Where’d you get your Confidence?

I’m confident because I’ve always been. It really is just a part of my character. When I was younger I was called conceited, but the reality is it’s just strange to find people that have genuine confidence in themselves without having to put others down to gain it. I’m flattered, thanks. Just believe in yourself and love who you really are (that’s the only prerequisite)… Confidence will easily follow!

Public Speaking & Performing Nerves

tips on how to overcome nerves and perform/speak/present infront of loads of people please

PRACTICE! PRACTICE! PRACTICE! 
Public speaking is definitely a gift and it doesn’t come naturally to all so when you can’t avoid taking on the responsibility of speaking publicly or performing, definitely practice up! When you know your stuff, it’s just easier to recite. Also, get two points of focus so when looking into the audience, you’re not staring directly into any one person’s eyes. I usually chose a point of focus straight down the center of the venue & the other point is usually to a few great supporters in the front row (or just someone who looks really excited for you and interested. They’ll keep you smiling and encouraged!)